Thinking of baby names is alot harder than I thought it would ever be. I can see how parent's to be could seriously stress about this. I'm not one to want to name a kid after a family member because I want him/her to have their own identity. I'm also limited in boys names since I have 6 brothers (that includes step and inlaws) and 6 nephews. I dont like freaky stylish names, certainly not for boys - it's just asking them to get beat up. And names that end in -er don't flow well with my last name. I've come up with about 14 names for each with only a couple that I love. Now I'm thinking since that's so limited I'm not sure I want to tell friends/family what I'm considering for fear of them telling me a story of someone they hated with that name :) I'd rather pop out a baby, say it's name and then if someone doesn't like it they will have to bite their tongue because it'd be rude at that point to say anything besides what a beautiful baby. ha! guess that's one way to get what I want :)
(Then again I know me and it's hard to keep a secret - my life's an open book, so I guess time will tell how it goes)